Texting obviously isn’t the most important part of a relationship, but it is one that you can use to your advantage. If you go about things the right way, your texts can get your guy all hot and bothered.. For the most part, all guys enjoy receiving a sexy or seductive text, so sending one can make him want you bad. If you can come up with your own, all the better. If not, consider one of these racy texts that I can almost guarantee will drive him crazy in the best possible way.
“You were looking so hot/sexy yesterday.”
Most guys need the validation that their partner finds them attractive, and even if they don’t, it’s still nice to hear. Plus, there are few things that make a guy want you more than knowing that you want him too.
“I keep thinking about what you said…”
Obviously, this implies that he’s said something you found intriguing enough to keep thinking about. This is especially a bonus if your previous conversation was super flirty/suggestive. Even if he doesn’t remember what exactly he said, his interest will be piqued when he hears that you’re thinking about him.
“I really enjoyed doing that… can’t wait to do it again.”
Needless to say, this is a text you send after having relations with someone. It can be a great way to get him to think about the next time you’re together.
“I wish you were here with me right now.”
If you tell a guy that you want him to be with you right now, he will almost always reciprocate those feelings. Also, this text is just a little suggestive of what you two could do together. In fact, it may lead into a whole other kind of conversation.
“Don’t be too tired when you come over later.”
It doesn’t get much more cheeky than this. But if you can pull off cheeky, a guy will totally want you. This text is also a great way to build some anticipation ahead of a night of lovemaking.
“I had a dream about you last night.”
Is there a person who doesn’t like hearing their partner tell them that they were a dream? If a guy knows that he’s popping up in your dreams, he’ll instantly want to give you the real thing. Obviously, you probably shouldn’t bring this up if he was doing something terrible in the dream, but if it was a good one, share it.
“Just thinking about what I want to do to you makes me blush.”
I’ll be honest, this one probably takes a little bit of courage to send, but it will send most guys into a tizzy of wanting to hear more. If you’re trying to heat things up with him, this is a good way to go.
“Are you alone right now?”
While not inherently dirty, there are certain connotations that accompany a text like this. Again, you’ll need to follow this up with something good, so be prepared for what you’re getting yourself into!
“Do you miss me as much as I miss you?”
Sending this text can be both sweet and sexual, but it will certainly get a guy thinking about you and wanting to be with you. That being said, it’s one you should only send after you’ve been dating for a bit. Sending it after a first date is guaranteed to be a disaster and you’ll probably never hear from him again.
“If I tell you I’m cold, could you come over and warm me up?”
This is another clever way to let a guy know that you want him to be close to you, and there’s every chance he’ll want you in return. Might not work in summer, but if you pump the AC, you might be able to get away with it.
“I can’t stop thinking about what we could do if you were here.”
If you let a guy use his imagination, there’s no shortage of ways that he can think about how badly he wants you.
“I bought some lingerie today, want to see?”
If you’re going to send this text to a guy, make sure that it’s true. You don’t want to tease him with a lingerie fashion show, do you? That being said, it’s an easy way to get him thinking about how badly he wants you.
“If you cook dinner for me, I’ll take care of the dessert.”
I think we all get the point of this text. Just make sure you send it to a guy who’s a decent cook.
“My bed feels so big and empty without you in it.”
This is another great way to just let him use his imagination. Sometimes the best way to make him want you is to lead him to water but let him choose to take a drink.
“Last night was incredible, can’t wait for the encore tonight.”
Obviously, this text can only be sent during a specific set of circumstances. But with most guys, if you tell him how much you enjoyed yourself, he’ll want you even more and be eager to please.
“I can’t find the emojis to explain what I want to do to you.”
This is getting the best of both worlds. First, most guys aren’t huge fans of receiving emojis, so he dodges that bullet. Plus, it lets him know that he wants you, which will make it easier for him to want you.
“I want you. Now!”
There’s literally no chance that the message here will get lost in translation. Making it clear to a guy that he’s desired is the best way to make him want you. He may even drop everything he’s doing and come over.
“I need you to come over right now – like really need you.
This is another great way to let a guy know how badly he wants you, which will remind him how badly he wants you too.
“Do you remember that one time?”
If you’re wondering whether a guy still wants you, this is a great approach to take. Taking a guy for a stroll down memory lane can remind him of how much he wants you. Just make sure that you two are on the same page with what event you want to remind him of.
When in doubt, there’s nothing wrong with sending a sexy selfie of yourself. The right pick can get a guy’s engines going and make him think about nothing but how badly he wants to be with you right now.
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